So let's face it boys and girls.....in todays youth-obsessed, celebrity culture it can be pretty hard to find and maintain a healthy level of self-esteem and confidence....(tell me it's not just me, right?).
Well.... been there done THAT! Now at the glorious age of 32, I've had the 20-something identity crisis, had the "what's eating me, so why am I eating" epiphany and have finally figured out (with much professional help) that Josi needs to take her meds daily.....no ifs, ands or buts........(I wish I was kidding)....
But ever so often I become completely plagued by self-doubt and insecurity again.....that little voice inside my head just gets WAY too loud...so I do what any self-respecting girl would do...I hide it all behind my designer jeans, a head of beautiful highlights and perfect makeup.....I mean, it's my JOB to make other women look and feel beautiful..so I am PERFECT at doing it for myself, right? HA!That little voice still compares myself to others..and I never seem to measure up...sometimes I can't seem to stop "comparing my insides to others outsides"...I mean, if you LOOK pulled together, you ARE pulled together right? WRONG.....
Turns out, I am not the only one....and I was delighted to find out a few weeks ago that one of the most popular, pretty girls in my high school class (talk about insecurity...not a good time for me)has her own little voice..so she wrote a book about it!!! It's called Does This Book Make My Butt Look Big? (and who cares anyway, it's MY butt)...and inside author and confidant Sarah Nilsen takes us on a personal tour of her insecurities and self-doubt....and shows us how she triumphed!...Sarah showcases her fears and defining moments in hilarious short essays that ALL woman can relate to.
From getting fired to diet schemes, Sarah isn't afraid to tell it like it is and that is why I LOVED this book seriously ya'll...I started it at like 8pm (on a school night) and couldn't put it down until 12:30am! I was smiling like a chesire-cat and even laughing out loud right up until "So what does this all have to do with you, anyway?"...(you'll see at the end of the book).
The real message I took away from this book is that at heart we are all the same..and why not unite and share our weaknesses...because when we "get real" we gain a new strength! We as women all suffer the consequences at times of living in a world where air-brushed 14 year olds in haute couture are supposed to be the norm...a world where "Hope in a Jar" is an actual real-live product (and it's pretty good I might add).
So, do yourself a favor.. go buy this book. After you are done for the day, put on your most comfy sweats, pour yourself a glass of wine (or a bowl of ice cream) and sit down and enjoy! Who knew someone could incorporate a self-help book with so much humor it feels down right indulgent to read...I mean, seriously, I would put it right up there with US Weekly (did I just say that?)!
This book passes along a message that I believe every woman needs to hear....because let's face it...if your "insides ain't right ,ain't nothin else right"...and as Sarah says..."It's the size of your heart, not the size of your butt that truly defines you. " (Thank god!)
This fantastic book can be purchased at Amazon or at www.SarahNilsen.com.
Read Beautifully Y'all!